Showing posts with label Discouragement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Discouragement. Show all posts

In A Single Season...

Never underestimate what God can do in a single season.
We often assume that because our circumstances have remained the same for a long time, they will always remain that way. We begin measuring God’s faithfulness by our current reality instead of His eternal promises. Yet throughout Scripture, God repeatedly reminds us that He is not limited by timelines, human expectations, or impossible situations. The God who created the heavens and the earth is more than able to change the direction of a life in ways no one could have imagined.
One season can look ordinary, and the next can become the very season that changes everything.
David understood this better than most. Before he was ever known as Israel’s greatest king, he was simply a shepherd caring for sheep in the fields. His days were filled with responsibilities that seemed unnoticed by everyone except God. While others saw an overlooked young man, God saw a king in preparation. The wilderness was not a delay to God’s plan. It was the classroom where David learned courage, dependence, humility, and faith. Every lion he defeated and every bear he faced was preparing him for a giant that would one day stand before him. Then, in God’s perfect timing, everything changed. The shepherd became the king.
David did not promote himself into the palace. God brought him there.
Ruth’s story reminds us that faithfulness in small places is never wasted. She was a widow living with uncertainty, gathering leftover grain behind harvesters simply to survive. By the world’s standards, her future appeared limited. She wasn’t searching for influence or wealth. She was simply choosing obedience one day at a time, faithfully caring for Naomi and trusting the God of Israel. Yet the very field where she gathered scraps became the field she would one day possess. God transformed a place of survival into a place of inheritance.
Only God can write stories like that.
Mordecai experienced another remarkable reversal. For years he faithfully served without recognition. He sat outside the king’s gate while others enjoyed positions of influence inside the palace. There were moments when it probably seemed as though his faithfulness had gone unnoticed. Yet God was working behind scenes Mordecai could not see. At exactly the right moment, the king remembered him. The man who once waited outside the palace gates was suddenly welcomed inside with honor. What looked like years of silence became the foundation for an incredible testimony of God’s faithfulness.

Tired of Waiting for the Breakthrough

Then Judah said, “The strength of the laborers is failing,
and
there is
so much rubbish that we are not able to build the wall.” 
Nehemiah 4:10 (NKJV)

Every day, I coach women who are chasing a God-given dream. And earlier this year, I noticed something happening in their hearts that broke my heart a little.

Some of the excitement they had when they first started … had faded. Life crowded in. For some, progress felt painfully slow. I could see the discouragement creeping into their hearts one by one, that quiet voice whispering, Maybe this wasn't really my calling after all. Maybe I can’t do this.

Perhaps you know that voice. Maybe it whispers about a ministry you’re building, a relationship you’re fighting for, a career change you’re stepping toward, or a health journey you’re persevering in. Maybe there’s a dream God placed in your heart that now feels more like a burden than a blessing.

Can I tell you what I’m learning? This is exactly where breakthroughs happen. Not at the exciting beginning. Not when the passion is fresh and the possibilities feel endless. In the messy, unglamorous middle, where the rubble is piled up and progress is hard to see.

It's like in Nehemiah 4 when God’s people were rebuilding the wall of Jerusalem. It was a God-ordained mission, and they started strong. They were thrilled to be a part of this important purpose. But partway through, something shifted.

Nehemiah 4:10 says, “Then the people of Judah began to complain, ‘The workers are getting tired, and there is so much rubble to be moved. We will never be able to build the wall by ourselves.’”

Not just the enemies outside the wall but the rubble within discouraged them. The accumulation of hard days, slow progress, and exhaustion made them question everything.

But Nehemiah reminded them of the vision. He repositioned them and told them to keep building. One stone at a time. Until 52 days later, the wall was finished (Nehemiah 6:15).

Whatever God has called you to, He hasn’t changed His mind because it got hard. He will bring it all to fruition in His timing. It may not feel easy, exciting, or certain, but when you choose faithfulness over feelings and keep showing up anyway, God doesn’t waste your obedience.

Every hard step, every act of courage when you want to quit, every prayer whispered through exhaustion … He’s using all of it. He's building something in you that’s bigger than you can see. He’s preparing you for something you can’t even imagine right now.

Momentum isn’t built on giant leaps. It's built on faithful steps taken one at a time.

You’re closer than you think. And whatever wall you’re building is worth finishing.

Lord, remind me today that You haven’t changed Your mind about what You’ve called me to. Give me courage to keep building - not because I feel ready or equipped but because I trust You. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

- Tracie Miles
Provided by "Proverbs 31 Ministries"

When Negative Thoughts Run Your Life

Keep your heart with all diligence, For out of it spring the issues of life.
Proverbs 4:23 (NKJV)

knew they were there, but I tried to ignore them and deny their existence.

They controlled how I felt in the morning and when I went to sleep. They often caused my emotions to feel out of control, making me feel out of control too.

They dictated how I reacted to situations or conversations. They often made me feel offended, angry, or hurt, whether or not it was truly justified. They never ceased to remind me of my shortcomings and flaws, making me feel inferior and without value, and they constantly tried to pull me down with discouragement or hopelessness, stealing my peace and joy.

What are “they,” you ask?

My thoughts.

Life had been tough for many months due to a painful situation in my marriage, and as a result, negative thoughts were running my life.

I didn’t want to feel sad or unhappy, but my thoughts stayed consumed with all the things that made me sad and unhappy. I didn’t want to feel discouraged or fearful, but my heart was heavy.

My negative thoughts were weighing down not only my emotions but my outlook on life. I felt as if I were sinking mentally, emotionally, and at times spiritually.

Todays key verse gives us wise advice on dealing with our thoughts: Keep your heart with all diligence, For out of it spring the issues of life. (Proverbs 4:23).

This passage was written by King Solomon for the benefit of his own sons. As I read Proverbs 4, I notice that although Solomon was the king of Israel, he didn’t just advise his sons about royal matters like how to handle money, job responsibilities, or leading the kingdom. Instead he spoke here of the value of controlling their thoughts, which would determine how his sons felt and lived.

The quality of our thoughts will always determine the quality of our lives.

Whatever our minds focus on will shape what plays out in our lives and who we become. Our thoughts and feelings have more power than we may realize, gradually steering us - and possibly our faith - in a direction we may not want to go. King Solomon knew it’s often our thoughts, not just our circumstances, that cause us to sink, and his scriptures counsel us to be careful about what we think and feel.

When I realized my thoughts were running my life, I admitted to Jesus how I had allowed emotionally fueled thoughts to sink my joy, hope, and faith. I asked Him to remind me of His Truth that says I can be positive even if my circumstances aren’t.

As He helped me intentionally change my thoughts, my life changed as well. And so can yours.

Dear Lord, at times I feel as if I’m sinking in my attitude, my thought patterns, and even my faith. Forgive me for letting negativity have power over how I feel, think, and live. Fill me with hope today. Give me wisdom to control my attitude, and help me learn to transform my thoughts, heart, and life. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

- Tracie Miles
Provided by "Proverbs 31 Ministries"

Jesus Wants You To Know...

"One of the hardest things about trials is the uncertainty about how long they will last. Usually, you can’t predict or control the unpleasant circumstances. You just have to live with them indefinitely. At times you may feel as if you can endure no more, but you can always reach out to Me for help. As you cling to Me moment by moment, I enable you to persevere. This produces in you not only endurance but also a harvest of righteousness and peace." "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it." - Hebrews 12:11 - "Jesus Lives" by Sarah Young

Motivational: "Meet God In Your Struggle"

Jesus Wants You To Know...

"When your plans are messed up, talk to Me about it. Talking with Me blesses you and strengthens our friendship. Also, I take the sting out of your disappointment by making something good come of it. So you can be joyful, even when things are going wrong. But it takes practice."
"But more than that, I count everything as loss compared to the priceless privilege and supreme advantage of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord [and of growing more deeply and thoroughly acquainted with Him - a joy unequaled]. For His sake I have lost everything, and I consider it all garbage, so that I may gain Christ," - Philippians 3:8 (AMP)

- "Jesus Calling for Kids" by Sarah Young

Spiritual Enemies

For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities,
against powers, against 
the rulers of the darkness of this age,
against spiritual 
hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.
Ephesians 6:12 (NKJV)

These who are not "flesh and blood" are demons over whom Satan has control. They are not mere fantasies - they are very real. We face a powerful army whose goal is to defeat Christ's church. When we believe in Christ, these beings become our enemies, and they try every device to turn us away from him and back to sin. Although we are assured of victory, we must engage in the struggle until Christ returns, because Satan is constantly battling against all who are on the Lord's side. We need supernatural power to defeat Satan, and God has provided this by giving us his Holy Spirit within us and his armor surrounding us. If you feel discouraged, remember Jesus' words to Peter: "Upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it" (Matthew 16:18).

In a battle, it is imperative to identify your enemy. If you are not aware of the point of your attack, you are vulnerable. Paul had many enemies. Some resented him, others hated him, and others wanted to kill him. Some, who were supposedly on his side, sought to harm him and his ministry (Acts 9:23; Philippians 1:17; 2 Timothy 1:15; 1 Timothy 1:20; 2 Timothy 4:14). In spite of the persecution he faced, Paul never lost sight of his real enemy. Paul was wary of Satan. When people attacked him, he knew they were not his real opponents. They were simply unwitting instruments of the spiritual forces of darkness.

When you meet opposition to your faith, your first reaction may be anger toward your antagonist. This may divert your attention from the deeper, spiritual dimensions of your conflict. Your adversary may be hopelessly in bondage to sin. Rather than retaliating, you should immediately and earnestly intercede for that person. Your opponent's hostility is your invitation to become involved in God's redemptive work to free him or her from spiritual bondage.

Life Seasons

Life has seasons where everything feels flat, where nothing seems to bring joy, and those seasons can feel endless. But they don’t define your worth, and they don’t define your future.

Even the people we read about in the Bible had moments like this. David was called a man after God’s own heart, yet he cried, “Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me?” (Psalm 42:5). Elijah, after doing incredible things for God, sat under a tree and said he wanted to give up. These were not losers. These were people caught in deep valleys, and God met them there.
Joy isn’t gone forever. Sometimes it goes quiet, buried under the weight of exhaustion, grief, or disappointment. That doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It just means you’re in a tender place where God wants to meet you differently. You don’t have to make joy happen on your own. Joy is a gift, and it will come again, even if right now all you can do is breathe and take the smallest steps forward.
Your life is not over. You are not behind. You are not worthless. You are in the middle of a story that God is still writing, even if the page you’re on feels blank. And sometimes, in those blank chapters, He’s planting things you can’t see yet.
If nothing is sparking joy right now, maybe the invitation is not to chase joy but to rest in God’s presence and let Him hold you until joy returns. You are loved, seen, and not forgotten. - Ellie Mont

Jesus Wants You To Know...

"On some days, your circumstances and your physical condition feel out of balance: The demands on you seem far greater than your strength. Days like that present a choice between two alternatives - giving up or relying on Me. Even if you wrongly choose the first alternative, I will not reject you. You can turn to Me at any point, and I will help you crawl out of the mire of discouragement. I will infuse My strength into you moment by moment, giving you all that you need for this day."
"I will refresh the weary and satisfy the faint." - Jeremiah 31:25 - "Jesus Calling" by Sarah Young

God's Way Is Always Better

Sometimes God takes you on a journey you did not ask for. A path you never expected. A route that feels like a detour but is actually the way. You may find yourself confused or frustrated because it does not look like what you had hoped. You might be praying for something specific while God is allowing something very different. But here is the truth. What you want is not always what you need.

God sees what you cannot. He knows the end from the beginning. He knows where each road leads and what you will become along the way. He knows what will stretch your faith and make you whole. So when He takes you on a different road than you imagined, it is not to punish you. It is to love you. To grow you. To protect you from something you cannot see or to prepare you for something greater than you can picture.
Sometimes the delay is the mercy. Sometimes the closed door is the answer. Sometimes the long way around is the only way to get to where your soul can breathe. You think you want certain things. A relationship. A job. A breakthrough. And you may get them. But not before He strengthens your heart to carry them well. Not before He teaches you to trust Him more than the outcome.
This is the goodness of God. That He would lead you where you did not want to go to give you what you truly need. That He would walk with you when you are confused. That He would sit with you in the waiting. That He would not give in to your impatience but instead grow your endurance.
Do not be discouraged by the detours. They are often the disguised path to your greatest healing. God is not trying to keep something good from you. He is building something good within you. The journey you did not choose may be the very one that brings you to everything you longed for. Trust Him. His way is not always easy. But it is always better. - Ellie Mont
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Jesus Wants You To Know...

"I Myself go before you - opening up the way. I will never leave you nor forsake you. Therefore, you need not be afraid or discouraged. I realize, though, that feelings often fail to submit to logic. So don’t be surprised when your emotions rebel against your will. David - who was both a mighty warrior and a gifted poet - expressed fearfulness, trembling, and even overwhelming horror in one of his psalms. Yet his trust in Me was genuine and deep. His life and his writing demonstrate that fear does not 'trump' trust: They can coexist. This is why David could proclaim, 'When I am afraid, I will trust in You.'"
"When I am afraid, I will trust in you." - Psalm 56:3 - "Jesus Lives" by Sarah Young

Application of God's Word: Hebrews 12:3

Verse: Hebrews 12:3
For consider Him who endured such hostility from sinners against Himself,
lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls.

Application:
When we face hardship and discouragement, it is easy to lose sight of the big picture. But we're not alone; there is help. Many have already made it through life, enduring far more difficult circumstances than we have experienced. Suffering is the training ground for Christian maturity. It develops our patience and makes our final victory sweet.

Do you constantly ask God to clean up every messy are of your life? To brighten every dark corner and to dress up every shabby appearance? That's okay; our concerns are His concerns.
But don't expect perfection. The perfect world we crave is for a future glory, not for now. Ease and comfort are not usually His prescription for us, because they will not prepare us for that future glory. No, God will leave us reminders of brokenness to serve as reminders of His grace. Endure those reminders well.