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Application Of God's Word: Psalm 32:5

Application:
God wants to forgive sinners. Forgiveness has always been part of his
loving nature. He announced this to Moses (Exodus 34:6,7); he revealed it to
David; and he dramatically showed it to the world through Jesus Christ. These
verses convey several aspects of God's forgiveness: He forgives rebellion, puts
sin out of sight, clears our record of sin. Paul quoted these verses in Romans
4:7,8 and showed that we can have this joyous experience of forgiveness through
faith in Christ.
Many people don't know what repentance means. They offer a little prayer
something like, “Lord, I'm sorry for the sins I did today. Forgive me in Jesus’
name. Amen.”
True repentance makes no excuses. It says, “This is my
problem and my sin. I didn't have to yield, but I did. I can't blame it on
anyone else.”
To confess our sin is to agree with God, acknowledging that he is right to
declare what we have done as sinful and that we are wrong to desire or to do
it. It is to affirm our intention of forsaking that sin in order to follow him
more faithfully.
That is not repentance. It begins with confession, which
means to agree with. True repentance means agreeing with God that what you did
was wrong and needs to be cleansed. True repentance is coming to grips with
your rebellion against God so that you see you have been sinful and need to be
cleansed.
“Life Application Bible Notes” by Tyndale House Publishers
Excerpt from “Time To Get Serious” by Tony Evans
Bitterness
Bitterness is easy to justify. You can get so used to a bitter heart that you are even comfortable with it, but it will destroy you. Only God is fully aware of its destructive potential. There is nothing so deeply imbedded in your heart that God's grace cannot reach down and remove it. No area in your life is so painful that God's grace cannot bring total healing. No offense committed against you is so heinous that God's love cannot enable you to forgive.
When you allow bitterness to grow in your life, you reject the grace of God that can free you. If you are honest before God, you will admit the bitterness and allow God to forgive you. Bitterness enslaves you, but God is prepared to remove your bitterness and replace it with His peace and joy.
- Excerpt from “Experiencing God Day-By-Day” by Henry and Richard Blackaby
Choose To Rejoice
and the prisoners were listening to them.
[Acts 16:25-34]
- Excerpt from “Experiencing God Day-By-Day” by Henry and Richard Blackaby
Forgiving Myself: Crawl Out Of The Cage!
There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death.
– Romans 8:1-2
Reflect:
If Jesus’ work on the cross was enough to pay the penalty for our sin, why do
we feel the need to punish ourselves for our sin? Will forgiving ourselves
accomplish anything more for us in regards to our salvation?
When I was young, I remember struggling with
guilt and shame whenever I’d give into temptation. I’d think things like, “I
should have known better! I can’t believe I did this. I’m a horrible person and
a bad Christian.”
Whenever I confided in another believer about
my struggle, they’d tell me that I’m forgiven in Christ. They’d remind me that
“if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to
cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). They’d tell me that God
“does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our
iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his
steadfast love toward those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west,
so far does he remove our transgressions from us” (Psalm 103:11-12).
In my head, I knew all of that was true. But
in my heart, I thought, “Yeah, I know God has forgiven me. But I just can’t
forgive myself.” So, I searched Scripture for verses that specifically
mention forgiving ourselves and I didn’t find any. God’s Word has a lot to say
about forgiving others and so many passages explaining God’s mercy, grace, and
forgiveness - which I thought I totally understood. But what about forgiving
myself?
As I matured as a believer though, I realized
that those other believers who were reassuring me of God’s mercy and
faithfulness to forgive, were absolutely right about what my true issue was. I
thought I fully understood my standing with the Lord through Jesus Christ. But
I clearly didn’t because if I truly understood today’s verse, that in Christ
there is no more condemnation and that I have been set
free by the Spirit, then I wouldn’t have continued to hold myself captive
in my guilt and shame. If I truly understood that Jesus’ work on the cross was
completely sufficient, that “it is finished” like He said from the cross (John
19:30), I wouldn’t be sitting around wallowing in my sin, self-assigning
penance!
Imagine your sin as if it’s a cage that you
are trapped in. Without Christ, you will surely die in there! But through His
death and resurrection, Jesus unlocked the cage! Now, you are free to come out
and Jesus is calling you to get out of the cage and come to Him where you can
find life and freedom. You say that you totally understand His work on the
cross, that He died in your place to pay your penalty. But then, you say, “I
just can’t forgive myself” and you think you’ve crawled out of the cage…but you
really haven’t. You are still stuck in there!
Why? Because you are listening to the wrong
voice. Revelation 12:10 talks about Satan as “the accuser of our
brothers” who “accuses them day and night before our God”. I felt like I needed
to forgive myself because I was horrible, a hypocrite, unworthy, the
absolute worst…Those were the accusations that I was hearing in my head.
It’s as if I knew the Gospel but thought that I was some kind of special case
in which my unworthiness nullified the Gospel, but I could resolve it somehow
if I could just figure out how to forgive myself. But my unworthiness is the
whole point of the Gospel! My inability to forgive myself or make up for my own
sin is the whole point of the Gospel! These lies were keeping me in the cage
and that’s right where Satan wanted me!
In his Enduring Word online
commentary, David Guzik emphasized that the accuser has been defeated by
Christ: “The blood overcomes Satan’s accusations. Those accusations mean
nothing against us because Jesus has already paid the penalty our sins deserve.
We may be even worse than Satan’s accusations, but we are
still made righteous by the work of Jesus on the cross (Ephesians 1:7, Colossians
1:14, and Hebrews 9:14).”
In Christ, you are forgiven, and you are
loved. In Him, you stand before the Lord clothed in His righteousness, not your
own (Galatians 3:27). You are not a special case that Jesus’ blood cannot
redeem for some reason. You are not more powerful than Jesus, so His
forgiveness is what saves you, not your own forgiveness of yourself! We have to
get that through our heads and into our hearts. We can’t keep listening to the
accuser! In Christ, there is no more condemnation, and we are set free!
So, crawl out of the cage! Then, stand up,
square your shoulders, and walk confidently to your Savior, Jesus Christ!
Pray:
Lord, I confess that I am prone to wallowing in my guilt and shame. Help me to
fully grasp the truth that in You, I am no longer condemned! Protect my head
and my heart from the lies of the accuser. Help me to crawl out of the cage of
my sin and into true freedom in You. Amen.



