Showing posts with label God's Forgiveness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label God's Forgiveness. Show all posts

You Did The Best You Could...

You did the best you could with what you had, and God sees that.
He sees the effort that no one else noticed, the prayers that never left your lips but filled your heart, and the days when simply getting through the next hour felt like more than you could handle. Nothing about your journey has been hidden from Him. While others may only see the results, God sees the weight you carried, the battles you fought, and the strength it took to keep moving forward when everything in you felt weary.
Many of us spend far too much time looking back at the past through the lens of what we know now. We replay decisions, revisit failures, and imagine how things might have turned out if we had made different choices. Yet it is important to remember that you made those decisions with the understanding, maturity, and resources you had at that moment. The person you were then did not possess the wisdom you have gained since. Growth changes our perspective, but it should not become a weapon we use against ourselves.
God understands your limitations better than anyone else ever could. Psalm 103:14 says, “For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust.” He knows that you are human. He knows that you become tired, discouraged, and overwhelmed. He knows the circumstances that surrounded your choices and the burdens that influenced your thoughts. His understanding is complete, while ours is often limited by what we can see and comprehend in a given moment.
That does not mean God ignores sin or that He does not call us to grow. Rather, His grace meets us in the middle of our weakness and leads us toward transformation. There is a difference between learning from the past and becoming trapped by it. God invites us to bring our failures to Him, receive His forgiveness, and continue walking forward. He never intended for shame to become a permanent residence in the life of a believer.
Romans 8:1 reminds us, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Condemnation tells you that your failures define you, but the gospel declares that Jesus has already paid the price for your sin. Condemnation keeps your eyes fixed on what went wrong, while grace points you toward what God is still doing. Through Christ, your story is not defined by your lowest moments but by the redeeming work of God.

Application Of God's Word: Psalm 32:5

Verse: Psalm 32:5
I acknowledged my sin to You,
And my iniquity I have not hidden.
I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,”
And You forgave the iniquity of my sin.

Application:
God wants to forgive sinners. Forgiveness has always been part of his loving nature. He announced this to Moses (Exodus 34:6,7); he revealed it to David; and he dramatically showed it to the world through Jesus Christ. These verses convey several aspects of God's forgiveness: He forgives rebellion, puts sin out of sight, clears our record of sin. Paul quoted these verses in Romans 4:7,8 and showed that we can have this joyous experience of forgiveness through faith in Christ.

Many people don't know what repentance means. They offer a little prayer something like, “Lord, I'm sorry for the sins I did today. Forgive me in Jesus’ name. Amen.”
True repentance makes no excuses. It says, “This is my problem and my sin. I didn't have to yield, but I did. I can't blame it on anyone else.”
To confess our sin is to agree with God, acknowledging that he is right to declare what we have done as sinful and that we are wrong to desire or to do it. It is to affirm our intention of forsaking that sin in order to follow him more faithfully.

That is not repentance. It begins with confession, which means to agree with. True repentance means agreeing with God that what you did was wrong and needs to be cleansed. True repentance is coming to grips with your rebellion against God so that you see you have been sinful and need to be cleansed.

Resources:
“Life Application Bible Notes” by Tyndale House Publishers
Excerpt from “Time To Get Serious” by Tony Evans

Bitterness

See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God
and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.
Hebrews 12:15

Bitterness has a tenacious way of taking root deep within the soul and resisting all efforts to weed it out. Bitterness occurs for many reasons. It might come from deep hurts you received as a child, hurts you cannot forget. Time, rather than diminishing the hurt, only seems to sharpen the pain. Bitterness can result from the hurtful words of a friend or coworker. Often the person who hurt you is unaware of the extent of your bitterness. You find yourself rehearsing the offense over and over again, each time driving the root of bitterness deeper within your soul. Bitterness can derive from a sense of being unjustly treated.

Bitterness is easy to justify. You can get so used to a bitter heart that you are even comfortable with it, but it will destroy you. Only God is fully aware of its destructive potential. There is nothing so deeply imbedded in your heart that God's grace cannot reach down and remove it. No area in your life is so painful that God's grace cannot bring total healing. No offense committed against you is so heinous that God's love cannot enable you to forgive.

When you allow bitterness to grow in your life, you reject the grace of God that can free you. If you are honest before God, you will admit the bitterness and allow God to forgive you. Bitterness enslaves you, but God is prepared to remove your bitterness and replace it with His peace and joy.

- Excerpt from “Experiencing God Day-By-Day” by Henry and Richard Blackaby

Choose To Rejoice

But at midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God,
and the prisoners were listening to them.
Acts 16:25
[Acts 16:25-34]

Your joy as a Christian should not depend on your circumstances. Joy comes from God, and therefore it cannot be affected by what is outside of you. Don't be fooled into letting the actions of others determine your joy. True joy comes from knowing that God Himself lives within you and has fellowship with you, regardless of your environment. Real joy lies in the knowledge that holy God has completely forgiven you of every sin, and even now, He has a home prepared in heaven where you can spend eternity with Him (John 14:3). The circumstances of your life cannot change these truths!

Paul and Silas faced some of the most difficult circumstances imaginable. They were falsely accused, arrested, and imprisoned. They were beaten and shackled in the darkest, coldest section of the prison. But they refused to allow their horrific situation to dampen their joy! They did not blame God for allowing these things to happen to them. Instead, they praised Him for His goodness! In the darkness of the night, they prayed and they sang. God brought a miracle that released them from their chains, but perhaps the greater miracle was that His Holy Spirit could so fill them that even in their painful imprisonment they could overflow with joy!

Do not allow difficult events to cancel the joy of knowing you are a child of God. Choose to allow God's Spirit to fill you with His unquenchable joy, and your life will be a miracle to those who watch you face the trials that come.

- Excerpt from “Experiencing God Day-By-Day” by Henry and Richard Blackaby

Forgiving Myself: Crawl Out Of The Cage!

Scripture:
There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death.
– Romans 8:1-2

Reflect:
If Jesus’ work on the cross was enough to pay the penalty for our sin, why do we feel the need to punish ourselves for our sin? Will forgiving ourselves accomplish anything more for us in regards to our salvation?

When I was young, I remember struggling with guilt and shame whenever I’d give into temptation. I’d think things like, “I should have known better! I can’t believe I did this. I’m a horrible person and a bad Christian.”

Whenever I confided in another believer about my struggle, they’d tell me that I’m forgiven in Christ. They’d remind me that “if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). They’d tell me that God “does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us” (Psalm 103:11-12).

In my head, I knew all of that was true. But in my heart, I thought, “Yeah, I know God has forgiven me. But I just can’t forgive myself.” So, I searched Scripture for verses that specifically mention forgiving ourselves and I didn’t find any. God’s Word has a lot to say about forgiving others and so many passages explaining God’s mercy, grace, and forgiveness - which I thought I totally understood. But what about forgiving myself?

As I matured as a believer though, I realized that those other believers who were reassuring me of God’s mercy and faithfulness to forgive, were absolutely right about what my true issue was. I thought I fully understood my standing with the Lord through Jesus Christ. But I clearly didn’t because if I truly understood today’s verse, that in Christ there is no more condemnation and that I have been set free by the Spirit, then I wouldn’t have continued to hold myself captive in my guilt and shame. If I truly understood that Jesus’ work on the cross was completely sufficient, that “it is finished” like He said from the cross (John 19:30), I wouldn’t be sitting around wallowing in my sin, self-assigning penance!

Imagine your sin as if it’s a cage that you are trapped in. Without Christ, you will surely die in there! But through His death and resurrection, Jesus unlocked the cage! Now, you are free to come out and Jesus is calling you to get out of the cage and come to Him where you can find life and freedom. You say that you totally understand His work on the cross, that He died in your place to pay your penalty. But then, you say, “I just can’t forgive myself” and you think you’ve crawled out of the cage…but you really haven’t. You are still stuck in there!

Why? Because you are listening to the wrong voice. Revelation 12:10 talks about Satan as “the accuser of our brothers” who “accuses them day and night before our God”. I felt like I needed to forgive myself because I was horrible, a hypocrite, unworthy, the absolute worst…Those were the accusations that I was hearing in my head. It’s as if I knew the Gospel but thought that I was some kind of special case in which my unworthiness nullified the Gospel, but I could resolve it somehow if I could just figure out how to forgive myself. But my unworthiness is the whole point of the Gospel! My inability to forgive myself or make up for my own sin is the whole point of the Gospel! These lies were keeping me in the cage and that’s right where Satan wanted me!

In his Enduring Word online commentary, David Guzik emphasized that the accuser has been defeated by Christ: “The blood overcomes Satan’s accusations. Those accusations mean nothing against us because Jesus has already paid the penalty our sins deserve. We may be even worse than Satan’s accusations, but we are still made righteous by the work of Jesus on the cross (Ephesians 1:7, Colossians 1:14, and Hebrews 9:14).”

In Christ, you are forgiven, and you are loved. In Him, you stand before the Lord clothed in His righteousness, not your own (Galatians 3:27). You are not a special case that Jesus’ blood cannot redeem for some reason. You are not more powerful than Jesus, so His forgiveness is what saves you, not your own forgiveness of yourself! We have to get that through our heads and into our hearts. We can’t keep listening to the accuser! In Christ, there is no more condemnation, and we are set free!

So, crawl out of the cage! Then, stand up, square your shoulders, and walk confidently to your Savior, Jesus Christ!

Pray:
Lord, I confess that I am prone to wallowing in my guilt and shame. Help me to fully grasp the truth that in You, I am no longer condemned! Protect my head and my heart from the lies of the accuser. Help me to crawl out of the cage of my sin and into true freedom in You. Amen.

- Nat Crawford (Provided by "Back To The Bible")