When The Flesh Wins
Abide In Christ
Abide in Christ – Being in Christ
“Abide in Me [Christ], and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me” (John 15:4).
Consider abiding in Christ or being in Christ as a journey. This spiritual adventure begins with a personal experience with Jesus Christ and continues for the rest of your life. The steps on this glorious path are ones of both pain and great gain since you must leave your former, natural pathways to follow a new way of living (2 Corinthians 5:17). This new path involves denial of your former path and its accompanying selfish desires and actions (see Romans 6:3-5), but is also filled with great blessings, including the very presence of Jesus Christ and a joy that is beyond description in human terms alone (1 Peter 1:8). This new life is one lighted only in small steps, which require faith in following along with, but not ahead of, Jesus Christ. Yet those who choose to discipline themselves do so with the assurance of fellowship that continues forever with Jesus Christ in His Home called Heaven (John 3:16 and John 14:1-3).
Abide in Christ – Remaining in Close Fellowship with Jesus Christ
To abide in Christ is not a matter of being in a relationship with Jesus and then suddenly being without that relationship. Abiding in Christ is experiencing an intimate, close relationship with Jesus as your Savior. It is more than a superficial acquaintance.
The life of Jesus Christ on earth was one of trial and suffering (Matthew 8:20), but also one of great joy in doing the will of God the Father (John 15:9-11). After the initial experience of coming along side of Jesus Christ, one begins to walk more and more as He walked (1 John 2:6). It is accompanied by a heart that is inclined and dedicated to obey God and His Word.
Abide in Christ – Continuing in Closeness
Being in Christ also involves the Holy Spirit, who convicts, comforts, and communicates with the disciple of Christ (John 14, 16). The truth that the Holy Spirit will teach the believer in Christ is always the same as that which Jesus Christ said to His disciples while they walked with Him on this earth (John 16:13-15).
This invisible leading is one that goes beyond words and even outward actions. There is an intimacy for the follower of Christ who hears the beckoning and guidance of the Holy Spirit which transcends what can be described in human terms alone. This closeness leads to a fruitful life with both inward and outward manifestations. These fruit are gifts from this life with the Holy Spirit - love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
Jesus Christ likened abiding in Him to a branch of a tree remaining part of the main vine of a tree (Luke 13 and John 15). From this vine (Jesus Christ) comes the only true, spiritual nourishment and eternal life. The branch that seeks its own ways and substitutes candy for spiritual food will not grow and will not produce spiritual fruit (John 15:2, 6). The branch which receives this spiritual food grows and helps to lead to other growth on the tree and receives to itself a life of “peace that passes all understanding” (Philippians 4:7).
How to Walk in the Spirit and Not the Flesh
Until
a Christian walks in the spirit, everyone sees your old self. That’s because
you lock away your spirit (dare I say in a sarcophagus) when you don’t subdue
your flesh.
The
flesh and spirit are significantly different. Your body drops to the floor upon
death but your spirit lives on.
2
Corinthians 5:1-2, 4-7
For we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a
building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. For
in this tent we groan and long for our heavenly dwelling. While we
are in this tent, we groan under our burden, because we wish to be further
clothed, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life. He who
prepares us for this very thing is God, who gives us the Spirit as a guarantee.
So
we are always confident; even though we know that while we are at home in the
body we are away from the Lord - for we walk by faith, not by sight.
Controlling
this earthly tent is a constant battle! I’m miserable when I let my flesh
control everything ALL DAY LONG. For example, hunger leads me to the kitchen.
On the way there, I peek in the mirror to see what my face needs. Then, my
flesh convinces me a day off from God is a good idea. Before I know it, God
isn’t important. Instead, I’m knee-deep in emails, social media accounts or
to-do lists.
Our
flesh demands attention and wants instant gratification. It loves independence,
power, and pleasures offered by the world. In contrast, the Spirit of God who
lives inside waits for us to respond to Him. So, what do you do? How do
you make a habit of living and walking in the holy spirit?
10
Ways on How to Walk in the Spirit
- Decide what
hinders you. What’s
your biggest fleshly battle? Sin entangles a person quickly (see Hebrews
12:1-2); therefore, know your hindrances and look to Jesus for help. Is it
sexual impurity, anger, profanity, hatred, alcohol, or something else? Be
aware of what your flesh likes - that’s what keeps you from walking in the
spirit.
- Reap life. Devote your
time to what everyone else does in the world and reap death. You sow to
the spirit every time you read scripture, meditate, or pray. By doing so,
God gets larger inside you and what the world does no longer matters.
- Obey God quickly. Like
anything else, it takes practice to do what God says. Deciding to train
your flesh or your spirit takes considerable time, either way.
- Be selective. The wrong
friends, TV shows, and activities pull you away from God. Your spirit
knows when that happens. You have a feeling that God isn’t pleased and He
has a better plan.
- Pray in the
Spirit. The
strongest desire usually wins out. If a besetting sin tries to overcome
you, pray in God’s heavenly language to resist. You may even sense the
Holy Spirit cleansing your heart while filling you with new desires.
- Listen for the
Holy Spirit. He
may prompt you to stop smoking or abandon entertainment shows that feed
your flesh. Remember, the benefits of walking in the spirit outweigh the
temporary inconvenience of changing a mindset or lifestyle. Everything God
tells you is important especially when you don’t want to hear what He
says. People tune out God throughout the day and then wonder why they
can’t hear Him in a crisis. He knows things you can never come up with on
your own.
- Decide daily to
walk in the Spirit. You choose whether you walk in the spirit or
not. Christians don’t stumble upon God. They make up their minds that He’s
the only priority worth chasing.
- See yourself dead
to sin.
How you see yourself in Christ becomes your reality. You can be led by the
spirit because you are a son or daughter of God.
Romans 8:12-14
So then, brothers and sisters, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh - for if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. - Allow fruit to
grow. As
you walk in the spirit, spiritual fruit starts to develop. You become
more patient, loving, peaceful, or kind. This doesn’t happen
overnight but the more you walk in the spirit spiritual changes become
evident to you and others.
- Thank God often. Without God
at the helm, a Christian does nothing in the spirit. Every time you allow
the Holy Spirit to work through you be thankful because you’re making
progress.
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Ideas About How to Walk in the Spirit
Supernatural
living occurs every day when Christians walk in the spirit. That’s because you
don’t follow your natural inclinations when living your life. You follow God.
Your flesh isn’t your governing authority that routinely opposes God.
Nope.
God’s laws are written on your heart, not on tablets of stone like the Ten
Commandments. When you allow Him, the Holy Spirit works inside you to keep your
heart pliable (soft) and teachable. Christians with hardened hearts allow their
flesh to rule non-stop. They’re unable to hear God thereby exalting themselves.
If
you aren’t walking in the power of the holy spirit and seeing results, review
this scripture to find out why.
Romans
8:5-9
For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the
flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things
of the Spirit. To set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind
on the Spirit is life and peace. For this reason the mind that is set
on the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law - indeed it
cannot, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God. But you are
not in the flesh; you are in the Spirit, since the Spirit of God dwells in
you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to him.
I’ve
found that choosing between the flesh and the spirit is the difference between
bondage and freedom. My spirit can soar or stagnate. It’s up to me whether my
Christian life is full of self or the things of the Spirit.
-
Betsy Wise
(Provided by “Writing For JESUS”)

