There comes a moment when you realize that what you are calling failure is actually just life unfolding in a way you did not expect. You have been holding your breath trying to make everything make sense, trying to fix what slipped through your fingers, trying to rewind what cannot be rewound. And somewhere in all of that pressure you began to label yourself with words God never spoke over you.
Sometimes the most freeing thing you can do is stop naming your situation something it is not. Instead of calling it failure, call it what it is. A moment. A season. A point in your story where you get to choose what happens next. Acceptance is not giving up. Acceptance is choosing to stop fighting what already happened so you can finally focus on what God is inviting you into now.
When you stop trying to force what is gone, you create space for what God is still growing in you. This is the shift where strength begins. You look at what is and you say, I accept this. I release the shame. I refuse to drag the past into the present. And now I choose to move. I choose to do something. I choose to show up again.
God meets you in that choice. God breathes hope into the small steps. God honors the decision to stop spiraling and start building. You are not behind. You are not weak. You are simply standing at a doorway that requires courage instead of perfection.
Choose courage. Choose movement. Choose the next right thing, even if it is small. That is not failure. That is faith.
- Ellie Mont